THE MARRIAGE PROPOSAL
Sometimes they say every girl's dream is to get married one day. This is true in most cases, but we must not forget that there are some girls who don’t believe in marriage anymore.
After four years of being in a relationship
with my boyfriend, Sam, I realised that marriage was just a fantasy. Although I
had a wish of getting married one day, Sam's attitude towards marriage made me
realise that as long as I was with him, my wish would never come true. So,
throwing the towel on marriage became the easiest thing to do.
Sam was an introvert, a less talk
and more action type of man. He was very secretive and liked surprises.
"Baby you know I don't like surprises", I said one day when he bought
me an expensive gift without my approval. But Sam being Sam, he never listened.
One evening Sam visited me, and
he was in a good mood. I was getting used to his exciting mood especially when
it was his payday. "Surprise!" He shouted while showing me two flight
tickets to Cape Town. He knew how much I wished to one day visit Cape Town, so
he made things happen. I was so excited such that shouting at him was the last
thing on my mind. The following two days, we left to my favourite holiday city.
During our flight, I was already
nagging him about what we were going to do and when. "Baby please stop it",
he said softly trying to shut me up from all the nagging. After two hours of
travelling, there it was, Cape Town, my dream city.
Upon arrival in our hotel, I was
amazed at its beauty. "Wow baby! This is so fancy! I love you baby!"
I said excitedly, moving up and down the room. There was the beautiful swimming
pool just next to our room, and on the other side the heavenly beach view. “I
hope you did carry your swimming costume for tomorrow", he said.
"Babes, let's have a bath,
we have a dinner reservation at 7pm, I am starving", he said as he
prepared himself for a bath, seemingly ignoring everything I was saying.
At the dining area, just after
having our luscious dinner, Sam reached out to his pocket, took out a well wrapped
small box. "Baby I might not be perfect at all times but I am happy that
you always stick by me. Sometimes I annoy you, but you never leave. I might be hard
on you sometimes, but you are always calm towards me. I love you babe, I love
you for no reason because I am afraid that when I get one, I might leave you
when it's no longer there." Sam said while going down on one knee.
People in the restaurant started
cheering, some whistling and others taking pictures and videos. "Tena,
will you make me the happiest man and marry me?" Sam gently asked, waiting
for an answer ready to put the ring on my finger.
Tears were rolling down my cheeks
nonstop. I was surprised and happy at the same time. I didn't know how to respond,
all I knew was that I loved him. "Say yes!" Shouted one middle-aged
woman excitedly.
"Babes, you know how much I
love you, right? But no! I can't marry you, Sam!" I said with tears continuing
to roll down my cheeks. I rushed out of the restaurants, leaving Sam on his knee.
After the embarrassment I caused
myself and him, the following day I left the hotel leaving his belongings and
came back home. I left not knowing his whereabouts since he never came back to
the room that night.
Immediately after coming back
home, I sent him a message explaining why I turned down his proposal.
“Sometimes growing up in
rural areas can be the hardest thing. I have fallen in love with you such that
you are all I need in my life but I can't be with you. My family had already
arranged a husband for me and next month am getting married. I wanted to tell
you this long time ago but I was always happy with you because you were chosen
by my heart not by my family. I love you Sam and I wish things were different.
Take care of yourself and know that I will forever love you.”
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