Why?
Some people are too quick to judge, don’t worry about them. No matter what you do, they will find a way to judge you in any way they wish.
Some went to an
extent of calling you a coward, being selfish and ignorant. But I know that many
who were in your position, would have understood what you were going through.
I for one have
seen your pain, and I know how much you tried reaching out to as many people as
you could, especially your family, but we ignored you, told you about our own
problems and turned a blind eye on you. I know how much you tried keeping your
head up, for your daughter’s sake, but the burden also kept piling and you
couldn’t stand it anymore.
Today I am in
deep thought: maybe, by our deeds, we all wanted you to give up. Remember that
it has been long since we had a gathering at home. Your family members are
scattered all over the country and even outside, and they can’t even help each
other.
Why did he do
it? Why did he do it in front of her daughter? He should have called, maybe we
were going to figure out something! He just brought a curse to the family!
I just had a
glimpse of what they were saying about you last week at your funeral.
That was bullshit!
I know that many times you tried to reach out. How long have you tried to talk
to them about helping you find a job? How long have you called your elder sisters
to assist you with your daughters’ clothes? Anyway, I am furious because they keep
saying nonsensical things after they failed you.
Well, you
remember how one night you and your daughter slept without eating because you
had no food? Things were different, but from the day they heard that you are
dead, your aunts have been cooking saucy foods with those big three-legged
pots. No one has slept without food since then. How I wish they had given you that
food, maybe you would still be here.
Your little girl
has been well-dressed. Very nice clothes. She has not walked naked around the
yard like she used to when you were still here. She is given everything she wants.
Remember your elder sister, the one who is loaded with money? She took her to live
with them in their big house.
Oohhh, perhaps
there is something much bigger here. Now I see what you did, you wanted the
best for your daughter such that you sacrificed yourself for her. You knew
things would change for the better and she would be well taken care of once you
do what you eventually did. Clever boy! You are a brave father! You got it, you
got what you wanted. I salute you!
Anyway, Rest well my friend, I will meet you on the other side! Tell my mother I miss her.
Inspired by the writings of Tenanile Dlamini.
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